Changed my blog address like finally ... And also delete away past archives, reading past archives really bring back alot of memories, be it happy or sad ....
From 2005 to now, from people coming in and out of my life, i remember something - A reason, A season, A lifetime.
People always come into your life for a reason,a season and a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, or to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually. They may seem like a godsend too you, and they are. They are there for a reason, you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die, Sometimes they just walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you somethingyou have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season. And like Springturns to Summer and Summer to Fall, the season eventually ends.
LIFETIME, relationships teach you a lifetime of lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person anyway, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you for being part of my life. by Brian A. "Drew" Chalker
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yesterday meet up with cin, shan, may, hui zhen, alexis, su wei jie. to celebrate shan's birthday in advance ... pic are with me, do get it from me ... it was fun meeting up ;D
